The ways in which Jasmine discovers who she is is by the contrasting ideas in America about motherhood, wifely responsibilities, and self-reliance. As she observes the American way of life, she resorts back to her cultural customs and compares the two cultures. For example, motherhood. While Jasmine was growing up, their family was a tight-nit circle. Their mother raised them, their father provided for them, her brothers looked out for her, and they taught each other how to live. Their mother was concerned for their well-being and finding a husband. The American family that Jasmine lives with and observes first hand is in New York with Taylor, Wylie and their daughter Duff. This family is very different from what Jasmine is used to. They hire an outsider to watch after their daughter. Wylie, the mother, works outside of the home. Ultimately, the Wylie leaves her husband, Taylor, which is something that would not happen in Indian culture. As Jasmine tries to sort our this American family, she returns to what she knows. First of all, Jasmine's maternal instincts immediately take charge. She refers back to her Hindu upbringing of familial closeness. She states that she could, "not imagine a small child sleeping alone" (Mukherjee 172). This difference in culture shapes the way in which Jasmine views motherhood. She sees the difference between the cultures and prefers to mother a child the way she was raised. Ultimately, Jasmine decides to stay with Duff in her room, keeping with her cultural traditions.
Mukherjee, Bharati. Jasmine. New York: Grove, 1989. Print.
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